Though am not used to writing much long posts like this👇, but I really need to pass the message to the utmost. So be patient and read on; you will never regret for reading this, I promise! Though it’s not that long anyways!
I wonder whether this is love or something else. You claim to be in love with someone while your intention is totally different from your approach.
I have seen many people making the same mistakes all over, this mistakes is mainly common for men/guys, but few ladies also partakes in it.
Few years ago, a guy was invited to a party, during the party, he saw a very beautiful and charming young lady. He concentrated on the lady for the whole day, without doubt,he was keen to meet with her. Unfortunately, the young lady wasn’t alone in that party; for they were many which gave him no chance to meet her. When the party was over and they were about to leave; he started following them until he got the clue of where the lady was coming from, though it wasn’t far from the party venue.
Months passed by, and It happened that when he finally had the opportunity to meet with this particular lady; he didn’t waste time to start vomiting all he had in his mind, until he was done, he didn’t allow her to say a word even as she was trying to say something; he continued…. And when he finally landed, she took a deep breath and now it was her turn to speak. She started with a smile(as in a decent girl), she said: I have heard all you said and believe me, your words are really lovely, but; but what? He cut in, she paused and then continued…. I wanted to say this, but, but what? He cut in again with the same method and she paused again, but this time around, she continued, and determined to spit it out without delay; I have a boyfriend! what did you just said? He asked. I said I have a boyfriend; she answered. He started stammering; but… but… but, she cut in too; but what? but you didn’t tell me since and i was here using all my strength to profess my love to you; he answered. She looked at him and nodded her head.
She then replied: when you seemed not to allow me to speak, I then waited for you to land before i speak. At least I showed you some respect that’s why I didn’t walk out on you. He responded; but now with bitterness: do you know how long I have been waiting for you? It’s been over some months now that i have been waiting for this opportunity, (he reminded her the party and narrated how everything went until that moment). He continued… I was hoping to hear something different from what i just heard, but at the end; you disappointed me. She bowed her head, (but not disappointed anyway).
She replied: Am so sorry about how far you have gone just to get opportunity to speak to me, you should have done that for a very long time, so that you won’t feel bad as you’re feeling right now. It wasn’t my intention to disappoint you, you were the one that sees it as a disappointment from me. I have a boyfriend of whom I love so much, I would have given you a chance, but now; am already in love.
Tears flowed down his cheeks as he wept bitterly. He felt so disappointed and left feeling humiliated.
It was about two weeks later, this time around the guy came with some of his friends to beg the lady to accept him. The guy actually made a deal with his friends that the lady must accept him after his last statements and proposal. He begged her again and again, when it seems the lady won’t change her mind; he went ahead on his knees with many promises to get the whole world for her should if she accepted him. This time around, the lady became so annoyed because the guy refused to accept the fact that she was in a relationship and she loved her boyfriend so much that she can’t leave him for any guy just like that. After some series of begging and arguments, the guy felt more humiliated joined with embarrassment in front of his friends because they started making jest of him. Before he left; he vowed to never give up on her and promised her that he will deal with her mercilessly.
One month later, when the lady was walking down a lonely street, it was about 7:30 pm. On her way, she suddenly felt as if she was being followed, whenever she turned, she won’t see anyone because there were lots of bushes along the street. At a point, group of guys suddenly came out of the bush and lifted her and took her into a nearby bush, covered her face and mouth in order not to scream out. She was shocked to see that particular guy Infront of her when the veil was removed from her face. He said to her: finally you have gotten what you deserved. She begged him but to no avail, he said: then I was the one begging, but now you were the one begging. He went ahead to take advantage of her likewise his friends; she was raped by six guys one after the other, starting from the guy himself.
Few months later, the guy and his friends were arrested and charged for rape, and was sentenced to 10 years imprisonment each.
What a sad end for the guy and his friends, wasn’t it? We all should be very careful of the way we handle things like this, of course it will be very hard for you to see a single lady or a single guy, it’s quite rare. If you approach a lady and asked her out, if after your struggles to win her over fall through, please let her be and maintain peace and serenity, you will surely find your right partner when the time comes. Let’s not partake in a crime that will end us up in the dungeon. There is no force in love I must say! To love is not what you can decide for someone else. I think we have to learn a lot from this story.
A word is enough for the wise, anyone who has ear should hear. Let’s save our lives and reputations. Am warned and you too should be warned.
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Bursh cares and loves you all.