I Trembled!

When I was walking down through the darkness
Everywhere was very cool

Not knowing where I was going

I could hear a drop of pin

I was so afraid

For I yelled out for help but

I only hear the echo of my voice

Life became so difficult for me

For I had no one to run to

The darkness kept on increasing

Until nothing could be seen

Then I heard a strange voice

Sounding through the darkness

I was totally afraid

For my heart nearly fell off my chest

It was difficult for me to deal with

I became a walking dead

And couldn’t cope with it

I became very sad 

And accompanied with sorrow

I suddenly felt a very cool breeze

As if it was a ghost

Trembleed for I thought it was my end.

YOU ARE MY HERO

You’re the best of all
No one to be compared to you

You possesses all I needed in a woman

You showed me the true meaning of life and love

Your patience is highly appreciated

Your words of encouragements are amazing

Your caring can’t be overpowered

For it’s extremely powerful

You take care of me as though you’re my mother

And you protect me as though you’re my shield

I must never forget that you’re my hero

For you conquer all my doubts

And give me the reason to overcome my fears

You’re the strongest

For your strength is more than that of ten men.

Until now;

I never see a woman as strong as you.

Whenever you’re with me

I become more than conqueror

Because a warrior is beside me.

I will Lovingly hold you tight

For without you

My life will be totally vulnerable and meaningless.

Is Female Circumcision Right or Wrong(FGM)? What is your take on that?

​Female genital mutilation

Typically carried out by a traditional circumciser using a blade, FGM is conducted from days after birth to puberty and beyond. In half the countries for which national figures are available, most girls are cut before the age of five.

Procedures differ according to the country or ethnic group. They include removal of the clitoral hood and clitoral glans; removal of the inner labia; and removal of the inner and outer labia and closure of the vulva. In this last procedure (known as infibulation), a small hole is left for the passage of urine and menstrual fluid; the vagina is opened for intercourse and opened further for childbirth.

It is usually initiated and carried out by women, who see it as a source of honour, and who fear that failing to have their daughters and granddaughters cut will expose the girls to social exclusion.

The health effects depend on the procedure; they can include recurrent infections, difficulty urinating and passing menstrual flow, chronic pain, the development of cysts, an inability to get pregnant, complications during childbirth, and fatal bleeding.There are no known health benefits.

There have been international efforts since the 1970s to persuade practitioners to abandon FGM. As a result it has been outlawed or restricted in most of the countries in which it occurs, although the laws are poorly enforced. The opposition to the practice is not without its critics, particularly among anthropologists, who have raised difficult questions about cultural relativism and the universality of human rights.

The procedures are generally performed by a traditional circumciser (cutter or exciseuse) in the girls’ homes, with or without anaesthesia. The cutter is usually an older woman, but in communities where the male barber has assumed the role of health worker he will perform FGM too.

When traditional cutters are involved, non-sterile devices are likely to be used, including knives, razors, scissors, glass, sharpened rocks and fingernails. According to a nurse in Uganda, quoted in 2007 in The Lancet, a cutter would use one knife on up to 30 girls at a time.

Normally, circumcisions are usually for males but the system of females being circumcised or whatever they call it is quite unacceptable. Throughout my research and findings about this so called FGM; majority of people opposed such act and therefore ban it from continues existence in their countries.

Through my findings too as recorded above. It was clearly recorded that it has “No Health Benefits” no matter the fact of some excuses applied before indulging in such act, it is called the violation of human rights because some victims doesn’t support it, while some women ran away with their daughters in other to avoid them being circumcised or FGM.

I thought I recognized you before now😖

What a doom I must say

Life seems the other way round

How can I notice this on time

When you act just like a saint

Not knowing you’re a chameleon

So much full of camouflage

And lives in deceitfulness.

You’re truly a wolf in sheep’s clothing.

Taking caution

Wasn’t in my mind at all

Because i thought that you’re plain and genuine

Not knowing how fake untrue you are

What goes up must surely come down

That’s why I adore law of gravity

I thought I was siding the right side

And I thought I recognized you before now. 

But to be honest with you

I don’t Recognize you anymore.

So I have been dealing with an imposter all my life.

I will never be deceived again.

How to be a king!

What does it take to be a King?

Leadership skills
Tolerance

Humility

Endurance

Self-control.

When you possesses such great fruits of the spirit.

You’re sure to be a great King.

Talkative can’t be a King

Gossiper can’t be a King

Fearful heart can’t be a King.

Being a King is not only to rule a community

You can be a King of your own

Be diligent and strong enough to take any challenge

Be ready to learn

Don’t rate yourself higher than others

Be recognized by your good deeds

Fight for what is right

Desist from wicked acts

And surely

Kingship will be yours.

And your greatness 

Will never be shaken.

Overwhelming happiness

So much happy for my life now
Sounds like things are working out well

Am grateful to God and myself

For giving me the encouragement I needed

I hardly discuss my problems

With anyone

But I love helping others with their

Problems

I was weak

But now I’m strong

I was defeated

But now am a winner

Life goes the way 

We want it to go

Never allow yourself

To be beaten

Through your weakness.

Am happy and excited

For the way things turned out,

My happiness and joy are really

Overwhelming.

How many people have you render your help to?

When last did you show some love to people out there? In fact I really want to know from you all, I mean when did you help someone who is in need?
I asked this question and I really need to get the answer. Many of us has really vowed to remain self-centered. It’s quite obvious that when you limit your way of helping others that’s exactly how people who supposed to help you will automatically limit their help to you. It’s not because they see you doing that but it’s just like that. Remember that nature does its job without making mistakes.

Some people also do think that they’ve it all and therefore, they don’t need help or assistance. It’s hundred percent lie. No one on earth that doesn’t need a help. Even if you have the whole money in the world, it doesn’t matter because monetary issues might not be what you need but something greater than that, or do you think that nothing is greater than money or wealth? If you think so, you’re simply deceiving yourself.

It’s time to show gratitude to God by helping one another. You never can tell maybe through your kindness; you will be recognized and also be blessed beyond your expectations.
Note this! Some people only limit their help to people around them, like their family and friends. You need to render your help both people you know and strangers. Especially to people who you won’t be expecting to return the favour; I mean the less fortunate. The blessing that follows it is really abundant.

Be ready to help and get ready for you blessings.