The true meaning of Leadership

People see leadership as being on the throne and letting others do the working. They mistaken leadership to something else of which extortion was their main aim of going into being a leader.

I wondered why people runs from pillar to post, fights and some even went on killing just because they want to be a leader.

Let me open your eyes on this, to be a good leader is equal being a servant. Leadership is all about serving people who elected you as their leader not extorting all they have. It is really obvious in politics, many aspirants during campaigns do promise heaven on earth and even engaged in serious battle with the opposition parties. Why all that since you want to be a leader, what example of leadership have you lead the foundation? most of them splashes money in other to get voted. Let me make this clear to you that those leaders who splashes huge amount of money while campaigning will firstly try to regain their lost before engaging proper in their duty, and while they were fighting to make their gain the time of their tenure elapses without them achieving anything positive before leaving the office.

All these means that we never had good leaders but only Entrepreneurs who invested while campaigning and then starts getting their profits while on sit. 

Be wise and careful while casting your votes for there are many who are wolves in sheep’s clothing. 

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Primitivity, the way of eradicating high rate of suicide in the Western world.

The time of primitive society is over! Can we return to primitivity ever again? 

There are things which had gone by of which cannot return again. The time when love rule, the time when oneness still exists. It can never be back again. When people act in “I don’t care” way. Selfishness have completely overwhelmed the whole community, no one cares for one another anymore. It is only me and my family, that’s what people talk about. No more me and my community.

Primitive period is the period when society works in accordance with their agreement. No division, no self-centeredness. It was when everyone loves one another and care about someone else problem. During that period, society fought together in other to restore peace and unity. They have rules that limit them from scattering. Everyone had their part to play in the society. It was lovely because no one thought of killing fellow humans for fame or something else.

My opinion here is that bringing back the primitive society will definitely restore peace and oneness in every society no matter the tribe or part of the country. Each country or region have their way of life and I believe that working with unity will reduce high rate of suicide especially in the Western world. Because it seems suicide is more in western world because they lack unity. They are mostly on their own, everyone in their closet. “Go, come back and enters your apartment and that’s all”. No greetings, no conversation, no lasting interaction that can create a room of knowing one another problems in other to support them in solving them.

In African countries, Africans  interacts even with strangers in other to know what they really need. It’s time to break the bondage of “living alone and dying alone”. With that we can reduce or eradicate high rate of suicide in the world.

This post is open to everyone to comment and share their opinions. Thanks 

Always know that BURSH cares. 

Welcome back Note.

It’s really great to be back in the blogosphere because blogging gives me room to reach out to people who finds it difficult to cope with challenges of life. My time in school was extremely stressful that I couldn’t do anything else apart drawing and measuring as architecture is time consuming.

It doesn’t mean that there was nothing to write about but the issue was time to write it because I worked day and night with no sleeping time. But the truth is that it is beautiful and amazing when after all that struggle achieving great is really assured.

Am good to write and am glad that am back. So start expecting my posts because they’re on their way. Bursh cares. 

My findings about Architecture and my Project Defense.

Finally my crucial busy days are over for now. To be in school is not an easy task especially when you find yourself in a course which is time consuming, money consuming and stressful all work together.

I was given  admission when I least expected and that really troubled me because personal financial aid was off the case because I totally consumed all I had because I thought it was all over since my time of expecting admission elapsed with me feeling frustrated. I gave up the hope of getting admitted to school but things turned the other way round. One Friday night, I worked up and picked up my phone and typed my registration number, to my greatest surprise, I was offered admission, I was happy then because it was a dream come true but still I was afraid due to the fact that I finished all I had.

With faith I believed it was my year and with that strong faith, my brothers where able to support me financially and that was how I started. It was like hell because Architecture is the toughest course in my school, it requires all attention, it didn’t allowed me to do anything else. I worked morning and night day after day. From one drawing to another, from one assignment to another, it was not easy. In the course of my 2 years in school many of my course mates withdrew from school due to the fact that they couldn’t bear the stress of architecture. The worst part is that the more you work the more your mentor / supervisor condemns your work and even tear some of them and tag you to REDESIGN. It becomes more hell when you were assigned to bad mentor.

The testimony of my story is that I made it to the 2 years program without thinking of withdrawing from the course.

  • Architecture is survival of the fittest and when you persistently come out successfully, you will surely be on top of the world.

Architect in the making. Arc BURSH.

Wallowing in pain

I saw him wallowing and gnashing his teeth
Like a staggering ship about to capsize

It seems his world was about to end

It’s awful to be alive but better of dead

Life is sometimes unfair to mankind

But who has the right to question the nature

Sometimes it occurs like an event

And sometimes it falls like holocaust

Life is really unpredictable

Sometimes you’re happy and next you’re sad.

What are we gonna do to please the world

Never give up for your rescue is near.

Life is more than what you can see physically

I came across these pictures tagged  above title and I reasoned it worth sharing and throwing more light on it. 
This picture marvels me to the extend that I started thinking. Many people do rate people due to their physical appearance but this woman really surprised the world. Love really surpassed all things even disabilities.

With love many people will shook the world. Let’s not think that all hope is lost when things are not going well. This man on the above picture with that woman never imagined in his life that he will be noticed let alone of getting married with such a beautiful woman. 

Let this teach so many of us lesson so that we will think positive all time and make the world a better place. 

Always know that BURSH cares.

THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT LIFE!

It’s been long I published post last due to busy schedule in school. Am back for now, So watch out for my new Posts.

I truly got encouraged by one article one of my junior secondary school classmate wrote. He titled it ” True situational analysis of life”  There he wrote about how we worked together as friends and classmates and also how possible it was for some of us going further to higher institutions and becoming professionals in different fields. He mentioned of becoming Doctors, Lawyers, Engineers, Administrators, Teachers, Pilots and e.t.c.

He further mentioned that some are married, some have children and of course; Some are dead. That part reminds me of how our own classmate who was my very own friend died out of illness and so on. He also said that many were confined in psychiatric hospitals for one reason or the other. While some wear rags and eat rotten foods from the waste.

I won’t forget that part he wrote that some are CEO’s, Shareholders and indeed managers of great companies by now, while some are yet to gain admission into Tertiary institutions.

All these write up made me to shed tears because looking into it; he completely said the truth, I mean nothing but the truth. Using myself as a point of contact. It was like life or death while searching for admission into Tertiary institutions. I worked and afterwards I spent all of them in the course of trying to gain admission. It continued of which I almost gave up until I finally made it recently.

One thing I believe in life is that peoples destiny will never be the same no matter how hard we try to mimic or imitate someone’s lifestyle. One thing you have to know is that it’s not where you started that matters but actually where you ended. I failed so many times and still stood up that’s why I can’t be defeated in this race of life. I believe in the future and not only the future but fruitful and greater future. I have met so many people who brag with their levels in school, but I just look at them and either smile or laugh at them. Because they don’t know where I started nor know where am going neither will they know where I will end.

Brag no more for life is too short. People you belittle today can be your CEO tomorrow. Be careful and be wise. Just believe in your ability like I do believed in mine. I never believe for once that I will remain the way I am now, never! because I believe in short time from now that my life will turn around and many will be defeated and surprised.

Believe in yourself because you’re more than conqueror.

Always remember that BURSH cares.